Jeff

i don't think people kill themselves because of gf/job
because those are the things you can change and fix if you want to fix of course.(only retards kill themselves for that lol)
I believe that most of them kill themselves because of the past yes the past the things they can't change the things they've done and regret badly. Now i'm not talking about some small things like ''oh i didn't study for my test i should've studied im gonna kill myself'' i'm talking about serious stuff if you know what i mean.
You can try to forget it but you just can't it will always hunt you no matter how good you live after that you can have 5 mansions wife kids cars and it will still hunt you. You will not be able to get rid of it you will become depressed you will start hating yourself for doing that. Even if you don't think about it during the day you'll dream about it. You just have to live with it it's life.
I've got a friend who is really positive and frendly but when he gets drunk he gets suicidal thoughts and then i see how he's not actually so positive he's being positive to forget that.
This is just the way i think maybe it's not correct but from my experience this is the way how ''killing yourself'' works

Imo people don't kill themselves because of something going on in their lives, it's mostly caused by depression. Depression is the result of pretty much everything terrible such as getting cheated on, getting fired and so forth or it can be a psychiatric disorder and trust me you wouldn't want to be in that situation. By its definition depression is dangerous for the weak minded, 'People with depressed mood can feel sad, anxious, empty, hopeless, helpless, worthless, guilty, irritable, ashamed or restless. '.

Originally Posted by Bob_Spray

i don't think people kill themselves because of gf/job
because those are the things you can change and fix if you want to fix of course.(only retards kill themselves for that lol)
I believe that most of them kill themselves because of the past yes the past the things they can't change the things they've done and regret badly. Now i'm not talking about some small things like ''oh i didn't study for my test i should've studied im gonna kill myself'' i'm talking about serious stuff if you know what i mean.
You can try to forget it but you just can't it will always hunt you no matter how good you live after that you can have 5 mansions wife kids cars and it will still hunt you. You will not be able to get rid of it you will become depressed you will start hating yourself for doing that. Even if you don't think about it during the day you'll dream about it. You just have to live with it it's life.
I've got a friend who is really positive and frendly but when he gets drunk he gets suicidal thoughts and then i see how he's not actually so positive he's being positive to forget that.
This is just the way i think maybe it's not correct but from my experience this is the way how ''killing yourself'' works

Although we discussed this on the IRC, I would just like to emphasize to the rest of the people who read this that, I have never said that what causes people to suicide is definitely either losing your job or gf/bf. Please try to comprehend what I've wrote before typing something out yourselves.

Originally Posted by SkidroW

Imo people don't kill themselves because of something going on in their lives, it's mostly caused by depression. Depression is the result of pretty much everything terrible such as getting cheated on, getting fired and so forth or it can be a psychiatric disorder and trust me you wouldn't want to be in that situation. By its definition depression is dangerous for the weak minded, 'People with depressed mood can feel sad, anxious, empty, hopeless, helpless, worthless, guilty, irritable, ashamed or restless. '.

Something going on in their lives is what causes them to fall into depression, eventually leading towards suicide, or attempts. What I've wrote on the blog, however, is that there is no reason for anybody to fall into depression, and go through all those suicidal thoughts, because it does not matter if you get cheated on, or you get fired or whatever other reason may occur to you. Because eventually, all that, goes away.

The thing is you don't simply control depression, you need to overcome it. It sometimes just strikes you down when you least expect it.

Originally Posted by SkidroW

The thing is you don't simply control depression, you need to overcome it. It sometimes just strikes you down when you least expect it.

Mostly when you're drunk
If you get depressed and get suicidal thoughts while you're drunk and you have no one near you
You're gone

Yeah. I understand that people are not all the same, and thank humanity for that one. With that said, I understand why some people find difficulty in between their depression to snap out of it. The blog is more or so to open the mind of these people, or of people who tend to be sadder/depressed most of the times, that whatever you go through isn't much of a deal if you just think otherwise. Like I said, people tend to worry about things too much. To what it might sound or look like something very important, either at that moment or in the future, it is only important if you make it so. Again, I think that, emotionally, we should make of importance the things that are positive for us, not the things that drag us down.

I read about a person that had suicidal thoughts, even date planned to commit suicide, and pretty much it was over being depressed and not finding pleasure at the most simplest of things. Although, again, we have to keep in mind not every person is the same, I ask how? How is it possible? How can you come up to a point that you don't even have pleasure eating or doing whatever interests you the most? I mean, okay we all have shitty days where we just can't bother doing anything, but does that in anywhere leads to suicide? How come? People eventually have to snap out and get it!

To me, I think, it's just sad that some people choose to end their lives, because they never get to see what would eventually come out of it. It's like, putting in a softer perspective, receiving a box and not open it and just set it on fire. Who knows what was inside of it? You would! If you had opened it.